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Chair
of Unity Octave
I should mention that the Roman
Missal often begins the Gospel with the phrase “At that time…” in order to
avoid a cumbersome explanation of exactly when the event took place. One of our
people asked me about the actual text, which says: “On the third day….” My
glib, off the cuff answer was that Jewish wedding parties often went on for
quite a while, and that was probably why they were out of wine. My answer may
have been true, but a another answer seems to be that Saint John wrote about
days one and two in his first chapter as the days during which Jesus interacted
with John the Baptist at Bethany beyond the Jordan, and day three begins the
next chapter in Cana of Galilee. However, modern scholarship cannot tell us
exactly where “Bethany beyond the Jordan” and “Cana of Galilee” were actually
located, and some theories place them about 90 miles apart, giving the wedding
party plenty of time to get started before Jesus’ arrival.
“This beginning
of miracles did Jesus in Cana of Galilee:
and manifested his glory, and his disciples believed in him.”
“Jesus … manifested His glory.” As I
mentioned to you on the Epiphany, this miracle at Cana is the last of the
“epiphanies” or manifestations of our Lord. The first was to the angels at
Bethlehem, the second to the three kings from the East, and the third was at our
Lord’s Baptism in the Jordan River. The event this morning is the manifestation
of our Lord’s miracle working powers—His time having come or not, Jesus had
begun His public life.
In the night Office, Saint Augustine
told us that “Jesus was pleased to be invited and to attend the wedding because
“He is the Author and Blesser of marriage,” and wanted to refute those who would
come in latter times … “depart[ing] from the faith, giving heed to spirits of
error, and doctrines of devils, forbidding [Christians] to marry….”
Augustine, himself, came under the influence of such false prophets as a young
man, joining the sect of the Manicheans, who preached the heresy that spiritual
things came from a good “god,” while material things came from an evil god, and
that marriage was a bad thing since it resulted in children in which a good soul
would be trapped in an evil material body.
Augustine also notes something,
highly germane for our time, that the same Lord Jesus testified before the
Pharisees that Moses allowed divorce only because of the “hardness of their
hearts”:
From the beginning of the creation,
God made them male and female. For this cause a man shall leave his
father and mother; and shall cleave to his wife. And they two shall be
in one flesh. Therefore now they are not two, but one flesh. What
therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
You may have noticed how the Church
placed this Gospel with a passage from Saint Paul’s Epistle to the Romans.
Paul was addressing the faithful Christians as members of the Mystical Body of
Christ—we should all get together as one, with each person exercising his
talents for the good of the whole. But it takes little or nothing to apply what
he says to a husband and wife;
Let love be without dissimulation. Hating that which is
evil, cleaving to that which is good: loving one another with the
charity of brotherhood: with honor preventing one another:
in carefulness not slothful: in spirit fervent: serving the Lord:
rejoicing in hope: patient in tribulation: instant in prayer:
communicating to the necessities of the saints: pursuing hospitality:
bless them that persecute you: bless and curse not. Rejoice with them
that rejoice, weep with them that weep: being of one mind, one towards
another: not minding high things, but consenting to the humble. Be not
wise in your own conceits.
Marriage is a mystical symbol of the
relationship between God and His Church. The relationship between man and wife
ought then to be a sort of macrocosm of God and His Church—a sort of miniature
version of the Mystical Body of Christ.
Think about the nature of men and
women. They actually have a great deal in common: eyes, ears, nose, throat,
the organs of digestion, respiration, and circulation; arms, legs, fingers,
toes, and head. Oh, there are many differences as well! But each and every
difference denotes a complimentary pair. In each and every case the physical
and mental differences between men and women make possible the birth and nurture
of children and the possibility of family life. It is precisely this
“complementarity” that enables man and wife to form that Mystical Body in
miniature of which I spoke.
Now, as modern day Christians, we are
acutely aware that difficulties present themselves in just about all marriages.
But that is the underlying message of today’s Gospel: We have an advocate in
the Blessed Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ. Life in a poor village in
a backwater like Nazareth had to face many of the difficulties we know in our
modern lives. The Holy Family was endowed with exceptional graces, but they
were surrounded by these difficulties in their friends and neighbors. Food was
never a certainty, medicine was nearly non‑existent—death could be a bad harvest
or a puncture wound away. Days could be arduous, with long hours of work with
no relief for sore muscles and no escape from the heat or the cold. Animals and
enemies posed a nearly constant danger. Perhaps the worst difficulty, and the
greatest enemy of married life, was boredom—what do you do to compensate for the
humdrum days and the long hours of darkness?
In the Gospel we see that Mary was
concerned with the married couple—she noticed their difficulty even without
being told. We can be sure that the great Mother of God will be even more
concerned with the real difficulties of family life—much
more so than with a trivial shortage of wine “on the third day”!
And we are not forbidden to place our
problems before her. The husband and wife who kneel together and call on Mary
and her Holy Family to grant them holiness and fidelity, to grant them an
increase in the actual graces of their marriage will not be disappointed. God,
to use Augustine’s phrase, is the Author and Blesser of marriage”—and Mary is
His Mother!